What does it say about “ idiot compassion?” https://enlightenmentward.wordpress.com/2010/04/28/manifestations-of-idiot-compassion/

Also what Jaron Lanier said: “...kindness requires genius—that it's actually really hard. That facile kindness is not kindness, and that it will take you a while to have skills. To have kind impulses—to want to be kind—you can have right away. To be effectively kind is hard. It takes skill. It takes hard lessons. You'll never be perfect at it. To the degree you get anywhere with it, it’s the most rewarding thing ever.”